
How much of our wardrobe is devoted to clothing we actually wear?
Facing a wardrobe makeover for a client who had put on some excess baggage around the midsection, I returned to my own wardrobe to consider the stockpile of treasures gathered during my own shape fluctuations.
I, like most women, have gone through size and shape changes. My wardrobe views as a log of these different selves.
There’s the Lose Five Kilos Wardrobe which contains the best of my wardrobe. It’s the designer stuff I buy at sample sales for summer, by then of course I’ve shed the winter weight (that was three summers ago now …).
There’s the Fat Day Gear which is designed to suit me once a month and during those carb-induced binges. None of it I actually like or wear and when I do succumb to trying it on I just feel worse for it.
There’s the Potential Pregnancy Wardrobe made up of Bali Baby Doll dresses, Tree of Life maxi skirts and jersey, jersey, jersey that I started buying two years ago so that I wouldn’t have to buy maternity clothes in desperation.
My stored wardrobe doesn’t stop there, oh no….
I also have a fancy dress section filled with retro buys that were once Faaaabbbuuullouuus Daaaaaarling - but are now too ‘Some Like it Not’ to see the light of day.
Loosely attached to the fancy dress is the dress up section filled with SATC buys, you know, sequins, puffed skirts, puffed skirts with sequins, clutch purses and vintage heels. I tell you my kid is going to be the best dressed up on the block. Let’s just hope it’s a girl cause if it’s a boy he’s going to love his mother best well into his 40’s………….
Add to this the “Comfort Factor”, the “Trends that Might Come Back” and the “I Spent too Much on This to Throw it Out” Wardrobe and you get the idea.
The sad fact is none of this ever gets worn. I’m never going to loose those five kilos that are slowly creeping to ten, I hate the fat gear and the comfort factor is made up of old tired jumpers and paint smeared leggings that no respectable 50’s housewife would be caught dead wearing. I need to face facts and throw it all out to make room for the clothing that I actually do wear on a daily basis.
I wonder how much I can get into those space bags under the bed…………………..
Right - Zimmermann Sweet Violet Long Dress, www.frockshop.com.au




no truer words spoken.This is called hoarding.A depressive state of “I might just need that one day thus I will continue to accumulate” mentality. My 19 year old daughter suffers this disease.She buys a new outfit regularly which includes shoes and accessories. Problem is our house is not large enough to accommodate. As for me I am a 45 and unable to find clothes which don’t make me look mutton dressed as lamb or frumpy grandmother. Thus I don’t hang on to clothes and keep a well ordered wardrobe of very few items of clothing. The main reason for this is that I am not able to find clothes for the woman who is between 40 and 60 and beyond. Flattering pieces of clothing that suit our bodies which neither make us look like our daughters or mothers.
Posted by: Kathy Harrison at August 22nd, 2007 9:39 amWell I guess that’s another issue…..
I totally relate to this! I finally did throw it all out, now I have hardly anything to wear and have to do the washing every few days. I need to go shopping desperately.
Posted by: Sara at August 22nd, 2007 9:51 amWoo get out of my head! That is scary! I feel like I am reading an extract from my own life diary. Surely there must be tonnes of us out there facing the same dilemma…. Maybe we could start the ‘CCCC’ AKA Clothes to Cover all Cases Club!
Posted by: Narnie at August 22nd, 2007 9:59 amSo me!
I have noticed recently that there isnt even room in my WIR/ tall boy/ laundry basket/ blanket box etc for anything else. One more item and its quite possible there will be an implosion! Thankfully I wash on rotation so that the laundry acts as a holding bay to prevent implosion.
Here’s the plan - dump the lot on my bed - try every item on - look in mirror - first thought I look great in this - return to WIR or tall boy (no more clothes in blanket box etc) - first thought anything else “hmm”, “maybe”, “i liked it when i bought it”, “i have never worn it” GONE GONE GONE - may need a truck to take to Salvos but those hoarded items are out!
Posted by: Melinda at August 22nd, 2007 1:38 pmand there is another category to add…..but I looked so good in this when it was in fashion, maybe I can adapt this to the latest look?
Posted by: marg at August 22nd, 2007 6:30 pmyep, yep and yep. i am hoarder. yep, i admit it. i have fluctuated weight up and down for the last 10 years, hence the range in sizes in my overstuffed wardrobe. problem is if some actually fit, i WOULD wear them. so i keep them as a reminder of a goal. but am trying to get rid of the larger sizes as i go down in weight so i’m not tempted to put any weight back on. yeah like that is going to work!! but it’s a start
Posted by: Helen at August 22nd, 2007 8:56 pmGet rid of it! Those space bags are very fragile and do not last. Unless you have massive storage space - give your stufff to people in need. You will feel better for it and always have the need to shop!
Posted by: Jennifer at August 23rd, 2007 12:00 amOh my god! soo true! i’d recently lost a couple of kilos and my problem is i don’t fit any of my clothes from before (in a good way!) but at the same time i’m also at the stage of in the next couple of years “possibly getting pregnant”. so i have all my “fat” clothes still in storage for when i do put the kilos back on during and after the kid is born. problem of course is there’s hardly ANY room left for my poor hubby’s clothes (thank god he doesn’t have THAT much to begin with!)
Posted by: May at August 24th, 2007 4:41 pmWell what can I say but “DITTO” to all the above. especially from Kathy Harrison … Yes I’m between 40 & 50 and well they just don’t make clothes that are a stylish fit sized for our changing body shape. Idea girls… maybe we should all get together bring in the clothes we don’t want & see if we can’t swap them… you never know what may have looked good on you may look fantastic on someone else. You never know having some kind of swap meet might be the answer some of us are looking for.
Posted by: Christine Moricca at August 28th, 2007 10:22 am